Thursday, August 07, 2008

I speak out

It was monday, the first monday of August. On this day, i stood up for myself, for what i believe, i pour out whats on my mind. Lately, i was a bit upset about how a particular thing was handled at work, well...., i was really upset. Big time! I won't bore you with the details here. My colleagues didn't know that i was upset, coz i didn't say anything i was hurt emotionally. Complaining about this thing to just one or some of my colleague would be like backbiting the other, so i expressed it out infront of all my colleagues. I didn't blame anybody in person. I just say what i wanted and needed to say.

Usually, when i'm upset i just shut up, i don't confront people who made me upset, i just bear silently, then it slowly fades away, time heals.. But this time it was different. I felt the need to say out what was on my mind; then, there was a chance to speak out in our meeting infront of my boss and colleagues. After i said what i wanted to say.. i was so relieved and proud of myself. I was happy and it was worth it.

2 comments:

VaiVa said...

So you did? It's gr8 not that you speak out but the fact is that you stand out among your brethren to tell them that you are on longer a mere spectator in the system. You let them realised the potential in you.

ma fren, you have to be bold (&beautiful, eh!) n daring in this world of 'Survival of the fittest'.

Do make a habit but don't yell or shout yet be original and confident. Baby, life is all yours as long as you believe in yourself. Chin up!

nancy said...

@vaiva- Well, my friend... something needs to be cleared, its high time dat i speak out for myself, something in me urges me to do so, so i did it.. anyway its no big deal, evrythings fine. I'm glad i did it.
Don't worry, i won't yell or shout.. nah.. you knew well dat i won't, right???